Why are women doing this?
We check Facebook ten millions of times.
We care about what he likes and does at any given moment.
Can we not be focused on ourselves and let go “he”?
Sometimes, I believe we women spend too much time worrying about our ex partner. He spends more time thinking about us.
Why are we so worried?
We wonder when he will be back next, or if ever.
Is it over?
Is he coming back?
What would you have done differently?
What was my last conversation with him?
Do I have to let him go?
We keep repeating these same things over and over, as if it were going to be different. We should learn from the past and make amends.
It is time to put an end to whatever “it” you’re replaying about a loving relationship. It is time to let it go. It distracts you, frustrates you, and takes up too much of your time. It keeps you in circles, unable to move, has no energy, and is causing you to procrastinate.
It’s not our job, even if things don’t go our way, to be a slave to it. Instead, we should find the strength within ourselves to embrace change and move on. It is too hard on the brain and on your heart. The soul and the heart don’t want you to feel grief or pain. Instead, they want you to love yourself again and to be happy. Sometimes we can get confused with our heart and mind. The mind will try to manipulate you by pretending to be the heart. It will make you feel guilty, victimized, or as if you should just give up. No! This is not the heart. If you are able to hear your heart, it will reveal your worth. It will show you that you can go forward and it will also tell you that you are beautiful and that a more satisfying, fulfilling relationship is waiting for you. You can use the heart to remind yourself of who you are without a relationship, and to build the faith you need for this life.
Why would we do this to ourselves?
We want to understand it. It should look and work the way that we imagined it. We have expectations and are disappointed when things don’t go according to plan.
How many times have you been with someone and thought he was “The ONE?”
How many times have you lost “The ONE” and felt thankful that you didn’t get to be with him? You can imagine what your life would look like if he had stayed. It would have been a mess.
You can accept and let go of things quicker than you think. This makes life seem more in your favor. Your feelings about your life are your control. You have control over your life. If you are religious or spiritual, you can be sure that God/the universe has your back. You will find it difficult to accept that something you don’t want is coming back. However, if you can stand in a place where you know yourself, your values and your worth, then you should put yourself first. You’ll know when it is time to let go.
Let go of the past and let it go. There is a beautiful love waiting for your. Let go of the past and let life be a constant process of letting go.
Kat discovered her passion for the subconscious and her own struggles with relationships through her journey. She is now a Lifestyle Designer and has found a true calling in helping others to improve their lives through motivational coaching, hypnotherapy and hypnotherapy. Kat’s goal is to help people recognize their worth, have a healthy lifestyle, overcome self-sabotage, let go of old beliefs and feel confident enough for success in life, especially in relationships.