If you’ve been married for many years, or if you haven’t dated in a while, you might be a little lost on how to flirt. If you’re in a relationship, or are looking to enter one, flirting can be fun and powerful. Here are 9 easy ways to flirt with someone in celebration of Valentine’s Day. These tips can be used in any combination. Remember to have fun!
1. You don’t need to look supermodel to be attractive. A well-maintained appearance, with a subtle scent and some makeup, can make a big difference. You can dress up a basic outfit with accessories.
2. Smile – This is a quick way to show that you are friendly and you care about others. It shows confidence, which is what everyone likes! ?
3. Eye contact-This is a great way to build a connection with someone. Eye contact is a sign of interest and can help someone feel valued and important. This makes them more likely to love you back. It’s a good idea to break eye contact occasionally so that the conversation doesn’t become too heated.
4. Speak the name of the person – It’s the sweetest word anyone can hear. Do you pay attention to what someone says when they say your name? Experts suggest that we must say the name of a person three times in order to retain it. You can still flirt with your husband by using his name in a way that catches his attention, even if it’s not romantic. It is very rare for long-term relationships to say the partner’s real name, as we often use pet names such as honey, babe, and so forth.
5. Listen – Take the time to listen and show genuine interest in the conversation. To show that you are listening, ask a few follow-up questions. You can see when someone is listening to your voice and you can model these actions (e.g. Eye contact, eye contact, nodding your heads, saying “hmm”, and so on.
6. Relax, enjoy and be yourself. Do not try to be someone else. Relax, and let go of your to-do list for a while so you can spend quality time flirting with someone. This is flirting, and it should be fun. It is not necessary to complete a task by midnight. Relax and enjoy the moment.
7. You have something to share – Stay up to date on news, music and movies. Use it to have easy conversations about whatever interests you. This is a great way for you to have a more intimate conversation and build trust, understanding, and commonality. There is much evidence that suggests opposites attract. However, we are more likely to be attracted to people who are like us. To “launch”, build a common base. I had to include that one!
8. Complensations – When you’re talking to your partner, date or stranger, notice something you admire about him or his personality, and tell him. It’s great to compliment others. For practice, try it with a friend. Do you feel shy about compliments? Be honest with the other person about what you love about them and tell them. It’s not difficult…just do it.
9. Touch- A flirtatious touch can be as simple as a gentle touch on the shoulder or hand. If you are attracted to someone, shake their hand gently and place your other hand on their shoulder. When you are speaking, gently touch your husband’s neck or leg with direct eye contact. If this is something you’ve been practicing for some time, it will take practice. Don’t be discouraged if you don’t get a positive response immediately.
It won’t take much to show someone you like them that you aren’t a fan of their taste. It’s like slowly moving your tongue across your top lip. Flirting can be a natural part of our personalities and can even be quite genuine. Although it can seem strange at first, it will become more natural over time.
